“Opportunities multiply as they are seized.” — Sun Tzu
I try not to dilute these segments with my own opinions, but if you are into psychology or even just interested in the nature of human interaction in general, do yourself a favor and read Sun Tzu’s masterpiece, The Art of War.
Written by a Chinese general 2000+ years ago, this (relatively short) book was intended simply for guiding soldiers in combat and strategy, but the majority of the advice given could apply to any social situation, from a controlling boss to a frenemy. It’s practically a handbook on how to deal with difficult people–well, other than the “war” part 😁 that obviously must be taken metaphorically–and is often required reading in many different paths of study, from psychology degrees to business courses!
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As it says you cannot live with conflict.
So the book isn’t about war but dealing with conflict. A very simple book which is full of wisdom.
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I love the idea of a general writing a handbook on how to achieve peace!
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Peace, if that is the right word. Usually result from from resolving conflict.
Unfortunately most conflicts arise from inside people. You have to be a peace with yourself.
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